言者谆谆，听者藐藐

[yán zhě zhūn zhūn，tīng zhě miǎo miǎo]

[ yán zhě zhūn zhūn，tīng zhě miǎo miǎo ] 谆谆：教诲不倦的样子；藐藐：疏远的样子。说的人很诚恳，听的人却不放在心上。形容徒费口舌。

《诗经·大雅·抑》诲而谆谆，听我藐藐。”

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言之谆谆，听之藐藐

The speaker is earnest and the hearer is contemptuous